Chasing Intan

Let me introduce you to Tom Tom! The only puppy that survive during Loubi's labor. Ain't he the cutest puppy in the world? xx I have three dogs at my house. Choo (chihuahua), Loubi, and TomTom (shihtzu). How I wish I can take them all to our new home. But Dieter has a strict doggy-rules and I can only take one of them! *CRY* I'm sure my Dad can take care Choo cos she's always been his favorite. So I was torn between Loubi & TomTom. I'm so confused cos I LOVE all my dogs equally the same, I hardly choose one. Sigh Every dog has its own personality. Choo is a smart, independent, and elegant dog. She's very hard to photograph and really love tanning. Yes, tanning! She has this favorite stone at my backyard, when the sun shines on 9she will sit there prettily. While Loubi is unquestionably the most spoiled dog and "diva" at the house. She is very maternal and protective to her child. TomTom is the naughtiest. He could easily climb upsta...

Marriage course!  My fiance and I, we attended this marriage course in our hometown. We went there with faith and open mind. We took front row seat for three days (six hours each) and we left with no regret. Moreover, with loads of knowledge and power to carry on our marriage in future. Everything seems right when we done it in a right way. And we're so glad we had a chance to attend it. For all marriage couples out there, feel free to take this with pinch of salt. Nevertheless, this is only theory.. Reality bites. But I'm gonna share it anyway. At first we have to introduce our partner to the crowd. Yes with microphone. Do tell his/her name, hobby, reasons you love him/her in a first place. My dear Dieter said that I am a shoe freak, and my one and only hobby is collecting shoes. I'm sure my face turned reddish that day. I love shoes, I really do. But I thought he's gonna said something nice like writing and stuff. Well OK. So everyone in the room st...

Politic and religion aren't clearly my cup of tea... (Shoes are definitely my kinda tea) I'm uncomfortable to talk about those topics to be honest, let alone in my own blog. Hence the "smile and nod" in both political and religion views column at my Facebook page. I don't understand and never interested in this dirty political world (cough). Pardon my ignorance but the idea to drawn myself in politic makes me want to vomit. On the other hand, religion is a whole different level. I'd rather to keep it private, just me and my creator... God, that is. It doesn't matter about my personal belief because I believe that religion is the foremost human rights. Sometimes people don't get that. They curiously wanted to know about that. It's just creeping me out. Whether I'm a Christian, Catholic, Muslim, Buddhist, or even a Jewish, it is NONE of your business. Just STFU and mind your own.

I'm only flesh and blood, but I can be anything you demand I can be a king of everything,  or just a tiny grain of sand ... Said I love you more than you'll ever know 

Jetting off to junior high slash high school, the sentence "Once I grow up I will...." was often heard between conversation. I was born in an environment with the thought that women destined to be a lovely wife and mother. So mostly girls dream about marriage, her prince charming that will later be her husband, and things like that. But as we move forward, our mindset will develop. We meet certain people, go to new places. Then without we even realize, we become a totally different person than we were then. As matter of fact, I am circulating in the "once I grow up" phase now. How time flies. If we used to "hope your dreams come true" at birthday cards, I'm finding it a bit odd now. That's why I always write, "many happy returns" recently.. Let's admit it, we're in MID twenties! Soon (I mean real soon) we'll be entering late twenties, early thirties, the big four, ... and so on. Anyway, I can't say that my drea...

A friend came up with a question that she thinks quintessential regarding a relationship. She asked if I can write down at least 10 things I love about my other half. It's not like he's handsome, hot, and all. But it's more like whether he has the quality to be a husband/father. I was insdisputable answered, of course I can. Even more than 10 I guess. It's unquestionable the easiest task to do.  She got the question from a marriage course she attended with his fiance. In the end, she could only wrote 5 out of the requirement. It shocked her and she thought it was a big issue.. She's getting doubtful about whether she should continue the relationship to the higher level or step backwards.  I honestly can't make further comment about this, I only advised her to contemplating about their relationship all over again. Never get married for wrong reasons.. As it will lead to one and only destination, hell. And trust me, you don't want to raise your kids ...

Above all many differences between my significant other and I, thank God we have at least one thing in common: OUR MUSICAL TASTE. It's still cracked me up whenever I remember one event in our relationship many many years ago. I think it happened in our first trimester... One day he showed up at my house and gave me a CD. "Wow" I thought. This guy knew my much interest in music by buying me an ORIGINAL CD (which was rare then). Then I immediately opened the case just to found some Chinese or Korean boybands in the cover. I read it, "5566". Like "lima lima enam enam" or "Five five six six" and I thought, "who the hell.... where on earth do they belong?"  But then I decently told him, "Oh that's so sweet of you... Do these lima lima enam enam boys can even sing?" We played it and I couldn't stop laughing. There's no way I'd caught dead with this kind of CD stuck in my player.  Poor Dieter. His face turned r...