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Goodbye My Friend.. RIP

current mood: sad sad sad

Last Sunday morning I got a message from my friend. She told me that one of my friend passed away in Malaysia.. She was only 22, and was battling with cancer these 2 years. And amazingly, no one ever knows that. Later I knew that she didn't want to tell her friends her problems, cos she didn't want to make them sad and worried about her. Nobody knows until the day she had comma.
She's my high-school friend. Very kind and friendly and funny. What more can I say? Everyone loves her, and we just don't believe that God called her very fast..

Shortly, I attended her funeral. The preacher gave a very touching speech and just blew everyone away. He thought that my friend was really a tough woman, and he's very proud of her, even he want to die the way my friend died. Cos according to him, my friend died in peace, and she already accomplish her job that given by God in this world. She thought that there was nothing more important in this world than our faith. Her biggest achievement was turning her parents into Jesus Christ (her parents don't believe in Christ). How sad was that?

Dearest S,
I hope you'll find your way and I believe that God will take care of you.
I'll never ever forget you and our relationship.
God rest your soul. Goodbye my friend..
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Demetrius said…
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July 16, 2008 at 11:35 PM
Intan Juliana said…
Yup, I couldn't agree more with you demetrius. She's a very young saint, but I think to hiding your illness is not the best decision. I know that she did that for the sake of not hurting anyone, but as her friends, we really want to cheering her up and be there when she needed us. But it's too late. I also really sorry about that. ;(
Thanks for your comment. I'm sure she's with her Father now. God bless her.
July 17, 2008 at 3:18 PM
Demetrius said…
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July 17, 2008 at 6:46 PM
Intan Juliana said…
Demetrius,

I've just took a short trip to your blogs and kinda amazed to saw what you've been up to. And suddenly I feel ashamed if compare your blog with mine! LOL. I mean, I think I'm not writing a meaningful post, I'm just telling what's popping in my mind and mostly based on my experience that day. That's it. Spontaneous. Contrary to you, you wrote meaningful things so people can get a "message" from your posts. Great job!

BTW, maybe it will a lil'bit more relax if we chat via email. So please reply my message to my mail : luv_dunkin@yahoo.com (if you don't mind ^-^ )

Whoops, almost forget to tell ya', thank you for stopped by and took your time to read my blog, really appreciate that! Too little, too late? :p
July 18, 2008 at 10:30 PM
Anonymous said…
me sad too :( can't believe she left this fast..still feel that one day i'll meet her again, say halo and ask how r u? hiks...unfortunately i can't come to her funeral...
July 19, 2008 at 8:42 AM
Intan Juliana said…
too bad you couldn't make it to her funeral phi... The preacher given a very touching and inspiring speech, --> he was succeed to make me couldn't sleep all night.
Well phi, all we can do is just praying for her, hoping that she will rest in peace in God's home forever. Amen
July 22, 2008 at 8:48 AM
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