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Greetings from batcave

Hi everyone!!! 

I think this is the longest I've been MIA. 
Life's been crazy......GOOD. 

My sis in law once said that "someday when you have a child, you'll put everything behind." Damn she's right! But you know what, it feels good just to sit here and start blogging again. Little prince is sleeping right next to me. I bought myself an ipad mini a week ago, hoping I can get some "me time" again. Writing and writing and writing. Besides replying customer's questions. Yes. I'm still a personal beauty shopper. In fact, I'm enjoying every second of it. 

First thing first. 
Vale turns 8 months today! I mean, where time flies? His baby phase passed in a blink of an eye. Oh how I miss those snuggly nap on my chest. He's a big boy now, weighing almost 11kgs. And I'm the one who shrinking. Yay!! He started solid on 6mos and it's been up and down ever since. Big boy hates gadget. When other babies can be distracted with gadgets, he prefer books. Lots and lots of it. Numbers, colors, fluffy animals, max the monkey, littlest mouse, etc. He loved how I sounded those animals. And just fascinated by the pictures from those books. I began read to him since he was 3 months young. Those books were previously his bedtime stories. But now I'm using them on meal times. Ooh.. He hasn't get any teeth. His gum was swollen, maybe it will come out soon! 

Motherhood is quite an experience. I always think when a child was born, so was the mother. The woman who becomes a mother reborn again. She existed before, but not "the mother" figure. It's all new to us. We learn and learn every single day. The fact that I take care Vale all by myself (with a sprinkle help from mr. D) makes our bond get stronger. No offense to those who use nanny, but I was the one who get all the experience. Bathing, feeding, nursing, playing.. and every single thing and in between. 

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It's unbelievable how I can go on and on and on again about motherhood. Like, I know nothing else in the world. But that's just how I truly feel. I'll come back when I have other thing to say :) 



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Demetrius said…
Awesome picture! Valentino is a great kid. :D

I'm very happy for you and Dieter.... There is nothing better than a strong foundation to raise a child. Both of you have tremendous qualities... (Faith, Loyalty, Devotion, Work Ethic, Intelligence, Humility, Discipline and Perseverance). I am very glad to see you proving yourself to all the haters and doubters! Only a few people believed in your goals... Only a few people accepted your relationship. Now everyone is probably celebrating and treating you like a QUEEN!!! (LOL)

"God is the ultimate judge. He will make your enemies bow down in front of you..." ;)
May 7, 2014 at 1:30 AM
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