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I'm thankful for...





Facebook is the right place to feel bad (or good?) about yourself. 
While  facebook can make you reunite with your friends from far far away, or even given you opportunity to do some businesses.. But at the same time, it also fulfilled with tons of pictures that can make you feel bad about yourself (and others or vice versa), and little did we know, it turn into envious feeling. 
"I wish I could be at XXXXX like him, I wish I could have XXXX like her, and etc etc." 
Well, OK I'm only human, purely 100% human who feels jealous. 

When I clicked through those enviable pictures and my heart start beating fast, I always manage myself to quickly log out from facebook, turn off the laptop, laying down in my bed and keep telling myself how lucky I am. 
I look around me and I silently whispered to myself, what's not to love from my life? When I feel down about my job and workplace, I keep reminding the devil inside of me that I should be grateful can be sit down where I am now. Things might get ugly sometimes, but I can't denied that it could be good some other times. How life is full of bittersweet.




I'm so thankful still be able to work and run my own family company.
I'm so thankful for the healthy food intake I eat every single day.
I'm so thankful to be surrounded by people whom I love and love me back.
I'm so thankful for the air that I breathe and the water that flow in my house. 
I'm so thankful that I have a boyfriend whom showered me with things that not available in stores and even money can't buy: acknowledge and experience
And many more thankfulness till I can make a whole book with it..





Don't forget to always be grateful about yourself and what you own. Cos sometimes people too busy to look at someone else's garden, till they don't notice how beautiful their garden is.. We reap what we sow. What are we doing now will be what we get in the future. Keep doing a good thing, then it will all come back to you. 

I currently reading a book and I can't help but quote, 
"Don't waste time judging, complaining, blaming, and feeling sorrow. If you do, you'll strive and forget your aim and purpose in life" 

I will try to be a person that less judging, complaining, blaming, and feeling sorrow about my life and others... Thank you for teach me.. (you know who you are) xox








PS;
If you're capable in Indonesian language, do click (and read!) this encouraging article iShine that written by one of famous host in Indonesia Sarah Sechan. 


Comments

Demetrius said…
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Soh Hong Wei said…
Nice post.
Me like!

Dont think too much of the pictures posted on Facebook.

You are who you are.

Take care! =)

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