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A friend came up with a question that she thinks quintessential regarding a relationship. She asked if I can write down at least 10 things I love about my other half. It's not like he's handsome, hot, and all. But it's more like whether he has the quality to be a husband/father. I was insdisputable answered, of course I can. Even more than 10 I guess. It's unquestionable the easiest task to do. 
She got the question from a marriage course she attended with his fiance. In the end, she could only wrote 5 out of the requirement. It shocked her and she thought it was a big issue.. She's getting doubtful about whether she should continue the relationship to the higher level or step backwards. 

I honestly can't make further comment about this, I only advised her to contemplating about their relationship all over again. Never get married for wrong reasons.. As it will lead to one and only destination, hell. And trust me, you don't want to raise your kids in hell do you. Dead silence. 
I don't mean to be harsh but it's rather to face the bitter truth now BEFORE it's too late. When cons > pros.. Then you know what to do. 

On more personal note, I could easily said 10 things I love about Dieter that makes him a good husband material. But vice versa? Kinda doubt it. I always think that he deserves someone better than me.. :'(




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